Becoming Greater than Our Circumstances

I love taking pictures of clouds... combining light and darkness to create something so beautiful! It's a good illustration of our lives.

Resolved to Rise is a blog that focuses on empowering people in becoming greater than their circumstances. It is easy to feel stuck when challenges arise, e.g., you are unhappy at your job or you were just diagnosed with a chronic condition. It may seem like the ground has shifted beneath you and the tools you once used no longer work for the place in which you find yourself. 

Often times, when you feel stuck, you are. As much as I dislike the quote I have to admit "perception is reality". And so, you find yourself complaining and the joy seems like it's been nuked out of your life. What I know for certain is that if I try nothing new, I experience nothing new too. What that means more practically is if I find I'm feeling sick to my stomach more than I want, but am unwilling to change my diet I am likely to continue to feel sick. It doesn't mean that the first or second or even third attempt at a new diet are going to solve my stomach issues, but what it does mean is the more I try the more likely I am to succeed. 

So, when I think of being greater than my circumstances, I know that it is a process and NOT a destination. The most important part is trying new things knowing some will help and others will fall flat. 

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